Sunday, August 24, 2008

All About Women and some more

Well, for one I was expecting a feminist play what with the name, “All about Women”. But it wasn’t. And yet, it was a delightfully entertaining production on the befuddling female psyche – some crying, some anger, sparkling wit and a lot of laughter. Directed by Hidaayat Sami, it charts the lives of various women and goes through their life stages – little girls playing with their Barbies, young women in conflict with their emotions, mothers coming to terms with memories and warring children, ambitious women clawing their way up the ladder (or should I say pants in this case), old women rediscovering their youth (the absolute best!). Watch this play, it's really good.

Talking of feminism, I recall a quote by Rebecca West, “I only know that people call me a feminist whenever I express sentiments that differentiate me from a door mat or a prostitute.” Feminism does not claim that females are superior, which would be the exact opposite of what male chauvinism purports; it only stipulates that women be allowed to shape their own lives as freely as men. It scares my male friends who ask me to tone it down little. Why upset an existing social order which has been working fine till now (atleast for them).

Look what we spotted hastily painted at Penne at Juhu, ‘As an afterthought to please the SS’ I did not like the food that much though; a little too Italian for my taste. The place has great ambience though.

Some things will change in my life soon. Blogging till then will be sporadic and half hearted unfortunately.

Sunday, August 17, 2008

Into the wild

There is a pleasure in the pathless woods,

There is a rapture on the lonely shore,

There is society, where none intrudes,

By the deep sea, and music in its roar:

I love not man the less, but Nature more.

Lord Byron

Soon. Soon....

Saturday, August 16, 2008

Anatomy of a downturn


I have been away for a long time. And I am glad to note that I was missed.
But I am in THAT sector, you know. I can see the ruins all around me.

I can see the people, eyes downcast, lips quivering,
“Today was the day”

Sitting together after, slouching, worrying,
“What do I tell my friends, family, will I get another chance as good?”

They talk to each other and smile knowingly, trying to reassure, yet shifty, mistrust in their eyes,
“Does he know of something I don’t?”

As days pass, the agony deepens. Anything will do. Just anything. It is no longer I am from here and have done that. I am down and out, and I need to survive.
Everyday I expect the worst; everyday is a struggle to hold on.

It is hard to go to work everyday, dreading the worst, hard to sit there working till late, knowing that your life could change in an instant for nothing but your manager’s whim, hard to keep up spirits when your friends are leaving. And really, it is not an event till it happens to you. Then you wonder, surely, you were better than that!

It is the darkest night before the dawn.